What
is a human being? I most of the time ask this question to myself. Birth and
death; but I never thought of the existence, in fact I couldn't ever thought in
that dimension. There were many other
things apart from existence and that were emotions. From the day one of our
life emotions are with us actually born with us. Because existence is itself
based on emotions. Happiness or sadness, joy and sorrow, love and hatred, all
has two faces. But have we ever thought
why these emotions are so self obsessed. But when you think, it is you or it is
your life then it would definitely be you. But you are not even you because
every time you related to someone else. You cannot be you when there is no one
around you.
When
someone else top in a class, why we envy him? Why don’t we think, “if not me,
at least somebody else has topped.” Then why don’t we get the same happiness
for at least someone topped. Imagine if you would have been the only student in
the class. Then with whom you would have competed? Then you should thank your
classmate for making your presence.
Why
do we get disappointed, when somebody else talks ill of us? Why don’t we think
“if everyone will praise me then who will criticise me”. Despite knowing we
have positive as well as negative sides then why we react. Think if someone
wouldn't have talked ill of you. Then from whom you would have boosted your
confidence? So, you should praise that person for increasing your confidence
level.
Why
do we get dejected when some tragedy happens to us? Why don’t we think, “what
if there would have been something more dangerous than this”. Then why don’t we
take our tragedies as saviours. Think if you would have not faced this tragedy.
Then how would you have learnt to live an original life. So, you should Thank
God for giving tragedies in your life.
When
we talk about human nature it differs. He has different thoughts, different
ways of perception, different characters’, different talents. But then why we
have same emotions; states of happiness, state of grief, state of enjoyment all
are same there might be different reasons but situations are always same.
We
have always been told to be humble and considerate to others. And we all always
try to be good to them. But then why can’t we live for others. And why can’t we take their pains as if of
ours. We are so much dependent and influenced by others that we can say our
existence lies within others. And then yet why can’t live for others.
We
are always unknown to our Psyche. And whenever we try to seek inside we get
lost in the different world of questions.
